Do you believe that babygurl?
Do you believe in God?
What or Who do you believe God to be?
These are question that you must ask and answer before continuing to read any further...
I often kick game for brotha's yet rarely kick game for women. As to how you gain prosperity in your life and properly utilize your feminine principles. Well peep...
You are God's gift to man. Any man should be honored to receive you babygurl. For what man could reject a gift sent from the Heavens. In saying that we must look at the attributes of a gift! Worthy of that to be sent from God.
A Gift~ or good luck. Dowry(Old English noun) from giving, gift. Sense of "Natural talents" c.1300, perhaps from the earlier sense of "inspiration" (late 12c.) as a verb from 16century "Gifted" attested later as "GiftWrap"
You now see through what essential attributes the universe has positioned you to flow & glow. And win as God's Gift to Man. You see men are simple when it come to women. Men, similar to women, operate in response to energy. Through the current diaspora of society, men currently operate on or suffer from Masculine energy. Depending on if your dealing with a Real Man or his lesser brethren a Weak Nigga. None the less men respond negative or oppose masculine energy.
If you find a man that's overly receptive and in heavy pursuit of Masculine energy. You better watch out for the nigga you're eyeing, because y'all are probably chasing the same thing. You see when masculine and masculine energy meet they either Fight or compete respectfully in accordance to each others space. Depending on what degree player your dealing with. If you ever see two men physically wrestling to often, that shit is not normal. You should again... Hand cuff your nigga.
Now in when it come to Real Men, they are on the hunt for one thing.... Positive energy! In the words of Bossmack Topsoil "Happy Bitches" Me sticking with my etymology high and the context of this thread "Good Luck Bitches!" You see you often hear men and society proclaim to desire women as "Support" or "The Back Bone" well this is what they are looking for in you. Your natural talents or Femininity! You see they are not necessarily asking you to "stand behind them physically" as much as they are asking you to compliment or reaffirm their masculine affirmation. Basically use your HIGHLY DEVELOPED Investigative skills as a second second set of eyes to scan over that which he is already in the process of manifesting. Which is his masculine role in leading or as many Sistas say "Coming Correct!"
Now peep, in "coming correct" your basically asking him to already have shit in motion prior to propositioning your to join the team. Now in accepting that proposition, you should respect what he already have in motion. And respect your place in coming into the dynamic after that. That by no meaning take away from YOUR GIFT babygurl. For you are unique. And a nigga can't fuck or love his business or money. He may love his job, just not the same as you. Your positioning in coming after should also not take way from your gift, because you should also have your own hustle in full effect. Opposite attract, but we win together.
So let's polish this thing up and touch lightly on what you can expand on amongst yourself to make sure your GIFT is Wrapped Tight!
Being Inspiration. Be inspirational equal being supportive equals you winning and shinning like a diamond. Inspiration does not mean Take over shit and testing niggas. Being inspirational means just that. Inspiring your man. Think Cheerleaders and why men like cheerleaders. (be that the nigga you chose is worthy and active in giving you something to cheer for. In which I have know idea as to how to physically locate that type of nigga because I do not check for niggas and there whereabouts) Cheerleaders are not shooting in the Gym. But cheerleader are doing what's necessary to contribute to the teams success. May that be tripping a nigga running along edge of the court or making noise to distract to other team. "We do not give free throws. We are on the job at all times"
Locating, Refining, and Displaying your "Natural Talents!" Be You! Do not accept a position you can not handle just to join the team. Explain to the man what you feel your natural talents are. "Nigga I feel I would benefit us better if I did XYZ!" Avoid down playing yourself by affirming what you can NOT do. And expand on what you CAN DO, but also always be refining and pushing yourself to receive more and advanced position. "Winning together include Advancing together"
Explain to him how you plan you using your natural talents or hustle already in place to contribute to the team...
"I'm going to get a spot at the local clubhouse and start a dance class for the youth over the summer. Each Saturday morning. And charge 40 dollars a child."
... Because believe it or not Men do not like surprises of any kid. YOU Liking surprises does not mean We like surprises. We are "together" not "the same"
To close this thing out... Keep your Gift Wrapping Tight. In short stay fit stay active. Men like active women. And active woman is a healthy woman. And a healthy women is a women with good feminine energy(as long as she stay away from supplements). And Good Feminine Energy equals a Good Luck Bitch. And a Good Luck Bitch equals you shinning and is winning...
So Good Luck Bitch! Stay Wrapped! And Stay Gifted at Giving!!!
~HighLife Phi
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