In this post I wanna chop up Charm, Confidence, and Attraction. And how you can obtain all three with one simple action.
And that action is Living In Tha Now!
First off, living in the now and staying on top of your game go hand and hand. Especially if you in Tha Life. In the real world there's no time for day dreaming, dwelling on the past, or trying to convince yourself you can do something. Because while your doing all three real shit is taking place. Real ni**as have already made up their minds. And the universe is already in motion. Think about it, while your daydreaming about whatever at a stop light, a real ni**a could run up and jack you. And you will never see it coming. While your thinking about what to say to a fine ass woman, she's already in her car and on her way about her business. You got to live NOW.
Most importantly, you have got to have Faith! Not faith in God. Not faith in the Game. Faith in Your MF self.
You see, you read all this shit in your life. Ni**as lace you with all this game, this bull shit! But you don't believe it. You don't believe in yourself. You know how I know you don't. The same way I know most Christians don't believe in God. Because you keep dwelling on it. You keep thinking about. And planning for it. And rehearsing it. Then re-reading and re-asking. You have no Faith!
Let me ask you a question. When you learned how to walk, did you have to re-learn how to walk? Do you think about where your gonna put your foot next every time you take a step? No. Why because you believe you can walk. You have faith in your ability to walk. So much so that you will wake up in a pitch black room and walk through it to get to the bathroom or a light switch. Now that's faith!
You see Faith breaths Confidence, Charm, and Attractions. How you obtain faith is through living in the Now! Right now! Giving this moment you undivided attention. It's like a small meditation where you focus on Nothingness! Calm your breathing and listen to the Game. When you on a date or approaching a female or any person for that matter. Give them you undivided attention. For as long as you can. Give them your undivided attention and TAKE in their responses. TAKE IN their body language. Take in their scent. This will feed your game! And your game will feed you in abundance.
Don't think about what you read, don't think about how they will respond to what you say, don't think about shit. When you do, you are playing god. You are stealing from god. And you are stealing from the game.
Be it! Be what you say. Be what you read. Own that shit. Have faith that what you read is in your arsenal. Have faith that what you took in from them was what it was. And act accordantly! You see buy just giving someone your undivided attention they will be attracted to you. For you will only be a reflection of what they are saying to you. So in essence they will be attracted to themselves! The same way you can tell when a women is not really paying you any attention. Is the same way a women can tell if your not paying her any attention. Even if you think you are.
But what are you really doin?
Thinking about what to say. Thinking about where your gonna take her. Thinking about is she gonna diss you. Do she have a crazy boyfriend.ect... So no your not really paying her any attention are you? If you were. You would have notice her legging shaking and your game would've told you she was ready to leave. WITH YOU.
You see most people can't do this simple task. That's what make it so powerful! And attractive. And Charming. Think about this. Why do people pay psychologist thousands of dollar over and over again. Just to tell them their life story. Because a psychologist is training in the fine art of Undivided Attention. And acting like they give a fuck. And even if they don't give a fuck they can give you their undivided attention long enough to make you believe they do. And they do so by living in tha moments.
So. I want you all who give a fuck. To practice thinking about Nothing! Eyes opened not a thought in your head and see how long you can do it for. 15second? 40seconds? It's a start. Focus on your breath without thinking the words. "Ok, I'm breathing. I'm not thinking" just Know that you are breathing. And your charm and confidence will improve. And Bitchez will be able to Tell. You'll have that Glow!
Have Faith ~HighLife Phi
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